But then, what we're really boiling down to here isn't so much "what I would do because I feel it's right" to "what people would be allowed to do."
'cause off the top of my head, I can think of a dozen things I wouldn't do with a gun to my head, but I don't have a right to tell other folks not to do 'em...
My point in the original conversation is more that life, particularly reproduction, isn't tidily black and white. There are so many shades of grey, and then you get into the question of "I don't like that shade, but I wouldn't stop you from coloring with that crayon" to "Now, that's just not right, period." I keep throwing shades of grey at her to see how she adjusts black and white thinking to it.
Re: Here's the problem ...
'cause off the top of my head, I can think of a dozen things I wouldn't do with a gun to my head, but I don't have a right to tell other folks not to do 'em...
My point in the original conversation is more that life, particularly reproduction, isn't tidily black and white. There are so many shades of grey, and then you get into the question of "I don't like that shade, but I wouldn't stop you from coloring with that crayon" to "Now, that's just not right, period." I keep throwing shades of grey at her to see how she adjusts black and white thinking to it.