No, you're right, it didn't seem to be by his choice. But the fact that he had to remind her that it was her choice that he not come around implied to me that he hadn't pushed the issue. Until he needed something. And even then he tried to con her.

Don't get me wrong, I love Jack. But he's a bit self-centered at times. And is apparently rubbing off on Ianto. *g* No pun intended.