ext_7674 ([identity profile] neadods.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] neadods 2009-11-09 01:14 am (UTC)

Combining two comments into one

I'm sorry you're getting shit from everyone else.

I try to look at this as the first amendment in practice. I have my own strong opinions about why it's being done and the line between practicing a religion and imposing it, but I acknowledge that the protesters are within their rights. (It helps that this is the "quiet" clinic and thus we don't get anyone doing the outrageous things you hear of on TV.) I try even here on the blog to talk about specific things and not generally bash; you're not the only pro-life person who reads me.

We escorts are part of a long-standing nonprofit organization. They drill into us hard that we are NOT there to counterprotest, and that anyone who does anything to bring disrepute to the group or break the peace is out. I know my temper, so the only things I've said out loud to the protesters are:

1) He [the doctor] doesn't drive a Mercedes.
2) We aren't paid.
3) (To someone who came into the lot) You can't do this, you have to stay on the sidewalk

and most often,
4) [name of specific protester] CAR! You're about to be run over! (Anyone looking at a car that has come in - this includes me - is looking away from any cars that are trying to come in. I spent much of yesterday almost being run over myself.)

Jeans are the uniform on both sides here too, and more comfortable as the weather gets colder. I doubt there is anything I *can* say or wear that will break down preconceived notions; yesterday one of the protesters made it clear she thinks we're racists and escorting for profit. I believe she really believes it; there's nothing I can say or wear that will change her mind; it's her legal right to stand on the sidewalk and say it; it's better that I just have something to stuff into my mouth and blow off steam at home.

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