Okay, okay, try to be as calm as possible. If your dad was going to have that sort of attack, the best place for him to be was in the hospital, and especially a hospital like Hopkins. I know you're worried, and scared and expecting the worst, but see if you can get to a place mentally where you don't expect the worst but accept status quo unless you hear otherwise.
And try not to let other people's panic infect you. I'm sure your brother was terrified himself, and that's why he gave you such a bleak picture. You're doing exactly the right thing.
You might consider going to the hospital just to be with your mom. You won't infect your dad if you look at him from a doorway or through glass.
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Date: 2004-12-11 06:47 am (UTC)And try not to let other people's panic infect you. I'm sure your brother was terrified himself, and that's why he gave you such a bleak picture. You're doing exactly the right thing.
You might consider going to the hospital just to be with your mom. You won't infect your dad if you look at him from a doorway or through glass.