Pro-choice - Whisky Tango Foxtrot?
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Y'know, the classiest counterprotest (I should say, the only classy counterprotest) to the Women's Lives march last year was the line of Catholic officials in full regalia standing silently outside their church along the route. They didn't demean themselves by shouting soundbites, they didn't blaspheme by saying that Jesus was doing X, Y, or Z, they just stood there as a visual reminder that the church Does Not Approve.
Well, they're being classy no longer. The order will have a decidedly political bent, and will be active rather than contemplative, Pavone said. Its priests will be trained to conduct voter-registration drives, use the media to get out their antiabortion message and lobby lawmakers to restrict abortion rights. They also will learn to lead demonstrations outside offices where abortions and family-planning services are provided.
Yes, priests. According to the article, this is a male only group. Because we all know that men have such a deep natual understanding of the ramifications of an unwanted pregnancy. That's why they're uniquely suited to provide what they describe as counseling services to women who are "tempted to abort their child".
Can y'all pray a damaged fetus healthy? An unhealthy mother healthy? Provide childcare? Restart an interrupted high school/college education? How about providing parenting education? Can you even provide funding to pay for this child that must be born at all costs (that you won't be personally bearing?) What about security, can you at least give that, considering that the Washington Post recently had a huge series of articles about how the leading cause of death for pregnant women was murder by unwilling fathers? Planning on talking to the men at all, are you, or just those sinful, sinful women who think their lives should be about more than the contents of their uterus?
'Cause if the answer is "no" then crawl back under your croziers, boys, you've got nothing worth doing. Jesus didn't say "suffer the children to come unto me by spitting on their mamas."
Re: reply and a question
Date: 2005-04-01 06:03 pm (UTC)fine, i'll engage you directly. i didn't before because (and can i just borrow your "style" for a minute?) you're a hot-headed, rakish zealot.
i find it hard to believe your entire family was kicked out of the church because your relative was disabled. i find it hard to believe you're so open-minded and righteous when you can do nothing but condemn anyone who doesn't share your point of view.
i never said the entire world had to behave according to the tenets of my belief; i said that as instruments of the Church, priests and laity alike are obligated to do what they can to advance their own causes. you're doing the same thing, motivated by personal reasons.
there's nothing wrong with that. if the world suffered homogeneity we'd probably all just kill ourselves because really, what's the point?
don't you ever dare group me into anyone's category--"men like you"--you've never met me. you're too hot-headed to read what i've written in any light but that which you cast upon it, prejudiced and wicked.
i'm gay. i know what it's like to be a minority. i know what it's like to struggle for acceptance. i know what it's like to fight, every day, for my own right to survive in a world that thinks it might just be better off without me.
but i would never call you--or any of your friends, colleagues, compatriots, or any other sort of peer--a whore or a slut. i am outrightly offended at the very suggestion.
and i really do wish you had responded courteously, instead of lashing out with unmitigated contempt.
Re: reply and a question
Date: 2005-04-01 06:40 pm (UTC)If I *were* a zealot, I'd be anti-gay. I'm not. You began by judging me and my communicative style. Judge not, lest you be judged, I believe is the phrase? Saying that "abortion is always wrong" IS a judgment and a lot different from "I personally think abortion is wrong and [for a female] I could never have one."
Wicked? If we go strictly by the teachings of certain sectors of Christianity, we're *both* in the same boat there based on what you and I have both revealed about ourselves. Do I believe I'm wicked for being Jewish? Nope. Do I believe you're wicked for being gay? Nope. But don't you call *me* hot-headed when you're calling me prejudiced and wicked.
I *do* think you're closed-minded, I do NOT think you have the right to impose your religious beliefs on my body, and I think you deliberately ignored the entire points of my posts to make your points and misread others.
I refuse to debate you any more, because you're not listening. That's your prerogative not to listen. But don't be surprised when some women get angry over male rhetoric about "abortion being always wrong." Expecting me to be courteous when my life and my freedom are at stake is as foolish as me expecting you to be courteous when some anti-gay bigot attacks your right to live and love as *you* please.