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Why everyone who struggles with depression, anxiety, and mental illness needs to read The Bloggess and buy Jenny's new book:

“Clearly I wasn’t as sick as I said I was if the medication didn’t work for me. And that sort of makes sense, because when you have cancer the doctor gives you the best medicine and if it doesn’t shrink the tumor immediately than that’s a pretty clear sign you were just faking it for attention. I mean, cancer is a serious, often fatal disease we’ve spent billions of dollars studying and treating so obviously a patient would never have to try multiple drugs, surgeries, radiation etc. to find what will work specifically for them. And once the cancer sufferer is in remission they’re set for life because once they’ve learned how to not have cancer they should be good. And if they let themselves get cancer again they can just do whatever they did last time. Once you find the right cancer medication you’re pretty much immune from that disease forever. And if you get it again it’s probably just a reaction to too much gluten or not praying correctly. Right?

“Well, no. But that same, completely ridiculous reasoning is what people with mental illness often hear. …. we hear it from others, but also from someone much closer and more manipulative. We hear it from ourselves.”

From: Furiously Happy
~ Jenny Lawson
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I am extraordinarily fond of oddball history books. Books about various aspects of feminism (The New Girl, Warrior Queens, The Harvey Girls, Lowell Girls, Girl Sleuth: Nancy Drew and the Women Who Created Her); books taking a new angle on famous people (Becoming Shakespeare, Appetite for America), books on various aspects of food and how they've changed (Food of a Younger Country, Appetite for America), books on attitudes about things (The Dirt on Clean: An Unsanitized History), history of science & forensics (The Poisoner's Handbook, Stiff, Necropolis) - I've even got one that's a world-wide cultural history of ghosts and ghost stories.

So in my habit of giving thumbs-up press to books I'm still reading, I've come to *ahem* gush about Elissa Stein & Susan Kim's Flow: The Cultural Story of Menstruation.

At times I disagree with the authors' conclusions - facilely deciding Lizzie Borden did it out of literally killer PMS depends on handwaving the intriguing evidence that her sister may well have done it - but on the whole it's a lot like another favorite of mine, Mary Roach's Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers in that it is a wittily written history of a subject that gives most people the collywobbles. Roach compared being dead to like being on a cruise: "You lie around and people don't expect much of you" while Stein and Kim wax eloquent about the medicalization of menstruation and how the only people who really study it are trying to make a buck off it: In a "clinical trial" paid for by the makers of Loestrin 24 Fe, 85 percent of the women polled said that "having their period" was one of their five greatest annoyances... Had we been polled, we perhaps would have written down "global warming," "unaffordable health insurance," and "the inexorable passage of time" as rating higher... Of course, it's different for those who suffer from primary dysmenorrhea, endometriosis, fibriods, and the generic condition known as "bleeding like a stuck pig."

To cover the topic, they also end up at least glossing on the roles of women, or at least menstruating women, in society and religion, but mostly in the "m" words: marketing, mass media, and medicine. On a more facetious note, there's also a rather long list of euphemisms used throughout the world. (Really, Finland? Ew.) A hilarious number of them, at least if you have my sense of humor, involve one country making snarky comments about another.

The text is liberally spo- okay, I won't stoop to the obvious single entendre a second time - liberally illustrated, mostly with the history of American "feminine protection" products... although there is one reproduction of the 1880s "Health through the fine art of massage" poster, because if you didn't know, the first appliance to be electrified was the vibrator.* In the poster, the man has his hands up a lady's skirt, but is looking away as befits a gentleman. She is looking in the opposite direction with a set face and crossed arms, possibly planning out a menu as she is cured of "all disease of the midquarters from neck to knee"... but she's MUCH more likely to be thinking "God, do I have to draw you a fucking map?"

The librarian visibly blanched when she handed it to me, but I'm enjoying the heck out of reading it. Recommended.




*Did it really take modern Sherlock to Go There and have the story about Dr. Watson using that thing on his patients? I refuse to believe that it's taken this long for fandom to perv.
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A bunch of people on the flist have been making or asking for recommendations for classic Trek novels, so I started digging in my library to see what I had thought was worth keeping through multiple moves over multiple years. It's been a while since I've read any of them, so YMMV (and at least one case, I'm looking at it going "You must be joking, I kept Spock Messiah? What in hell FOR?")

But these, off the top of my head, are the books worth having, if you can find 'em. Some are obscure, all are long out of print. Get 'em on ebay before the demand drives up the price.


Vulcan Academy Murders by Jean Lorrah. Frankly, her fanfic was better because she wasn't stuck within Paramount's limits. (If you can score any of the Twin Moons fanzines, grab 'em quick!) But she had an understanding of Sarek and Amanda as a loving couple that is unparalleled. Murders centers very much on them as opposed to the TOS Enterprise crew, although there is, naturally, plenty of Spock and some of Kirk & McCoy.

How Much For Just the Planet by John Ford. The crackfic against which all crackfic is measured. How Paramount let the man write a musical comedy as a tie-in novel may never be known, but imagine The Trouble With Tribbles with musical interludes and the insanity cranked up to 11. [ETA: My memorial post A Book With Yellow Pages was about this novel.]

Dreadnaught! and Battlestations by Diane Carey. Yeah, Piper's a bit of a Mary Sue, but so's Mary Russell. If you like Mary, you'll probably like Piper, especially as Piper does not marry a main character.

Ishmael by Barbara Hambly. This one will be tough to find because it disappeared off the shelves as soon as Paramount belatedly realized that Hambly had managed to write an unlicensed crossover with Here Come the Brides without them noticing. (I may have kept this more for the novelty of owning it rather than the merits of the novel.)

The Romulan Way by Diane Duane and Peter Morwood. I list more Duanes below, but this one was a particular favorite, focusing on a federation sleeper agent among the Romulans. The Romulans are treated with dignity and respect, which is one reason I liked it; another is that the only TOS character to have a large role is McCoy.

Spock's World by Diane Duane. A long-term history of Vulcan and the evolution of its people. She has some bits with their language that linguists will appreciate.

Uhura's Song by Janet Kagan. Everyone in TOS is in it, but as the title suggests, Uhura carries the story. Lots of vibrant worldbuilding as they seek for the cure to a plague on a planet of intelligent felines.


These books I haven't read in so long that I'm not sure if I should be recommending them or not, because I don't really remember a thing about them. However, I found 'em worth keeping at the time, so I'll list them:

Pretty much everything else by Diane Duane. I've got Doctor's Orders, The Wounded Sky, and My Enemy, My Ally.

Crisis on Centaurus by Brad Ferguson. After listing what action the K/S/M trilogy is up to, the blurb on the back continues "Now Lt. Uhura, left alone in command, must jeopardize the crippled Enterprise to save, Centaurus, Kirk - and Joanna McCoy!" So probably one for the Uhura fans.

Demons by J.M. Dillard

There was also something about a world of singing fur seals that I remember enjoying and which also had a lot of Uhura in it, but it's not coming to hand tonight and I don't remember the name. {ETA: Named in comments.]
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[livejournal.com profile] persiflage_1 is going to shoot me for doing another rec right now... oh, wait, she's British! No gun; I'm safe! :D

Anyway, I just finished one I wanted to rec, and then I realized that it made for a tidy theme package. So: Book Recommendations: The Immigration Edition

The one that started this is The Hindi-Bind Club by Monica Pradhan. It's one of those "snapshots from a life" told in six points of view - the original 3 members of the "Hindi-Bindi Club" (as dubbed by their daughters) who immigrated from India to America and 3 of the daughters they raised Stateside. What I appreciate most is that although the storylines reach a satisfying conclusion, none of them takes the cheap and easy route of a facile happy ending. )


The Bread Givers by Anzia Yezierska. I'm not often going to recommend books that I discovered when they were assigned in class, but this one is a gem. It's the fairly straightforward story of a poor Jewish family trying to survive in the New York tenements of the 1920s, with a father who thinks that the sole worth of a girl is to be married off to the advantage of her family and one daughter seeing the riches of a new world opening to a woman willing to look outside of custom and tradition. What makes this stand out from semi-contemporary "woman making her way in the world" books like Sister Carrie* and The Custom of the Country** is the beautiful language. )


I've changed my mind on the last one I was going to put in (The Irish RM) - not because I don't recommend it, but because I think it will fit in better with a future post of "mental comfort food classics to read over and over."



*I always reread this book when I'm job hunting. Watching Carrie flail around Chicago looking for work while being surrounded with things she can't afford but wants, resonates.

**Someday I'm going to write my essay on how this and Sister Carrie are the exact same book only in one of them, the heroine has three brain cells to knock together. Why this hasn't been made into a movie I don't know. It has far more depth and action to it than Age of Innocence.
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I've been recommending books on- and off-line and it's doing rather well, so I thought I'd take the opportunity of a lazy Sunday to post a general set of "books I think y'all might enjoy." They're all American books, but I'm pretty sure most are commonly available just about anywhere.

Presented in no particular order, a baker's dozen to start with:

Defending Angels by Mary Stanton. I Genre: Mystery. I stand by what I said in my review )

We'll Always Have Parrots by Donna Andrews. Genre: Cozy Mystery. An absolute must-read for the convention crowd )

Kitty and the Midnight Hour by Carrie Vaughn. Genre: Urban Fantasy. In a world where others are a persecuted minority, Kitty (a misnamed and forcibly created werewolf) runs a talk show. )

Through Wolf's Eyes by Jane Lindskold. Genre: Fantasy. A tightly plotted political thriller with a casting twist )

Holmes on the Range by Steven Hockensmith. Genre: Mystery When an illiterate cowboy hears about Sherlock Holmes, he decides to use 'detectivin' on the range. )

The Undomestic Goddess by Sophie Kinsella. Genre: Chick Lit If you'd told me four months ago how realistic and entertaining I'd find a chick lit book, I'd've sneered at you for weeks. )

The Wedding Officer by Anthony Capella. Genre: Fiction It's tempting to list 'food porn' as the genre for this. )

Enchanted, Inc. by Shanna Swendson. Genre: Chick Lit/Urban Fantasy Like a glass of champagne, frothy, frivolous, fun )

In the Bleak Midwinter by Julia Spencer-Fleming. Genre: Mystery. No cut, because I've raved about J S-F enough in this LJ; y'all get the message. It's the first book of the series, and thus the best intro.

Nation by Terry Pratchett. Genre: Survival I know it's classed as YA, but you're never too old for a good book. Pratchett is my other favorite living author, a quantum moreso than J S-F. Nation is a standalone, good for people who are intimidated or turned off by Discworld. Again, no cut because you've already heard me give my arguments for this one.

The White Deer by James Thurber. Genre: Fantasy. Do I really need to list why anyone should read Thurber, my favorite dead author? He can make the English language dance and do tricks that no other author can. Deer is his sendup of fairy tale, legalese, and advertising: "Seek Gralio, better than the true Grail!"

Summon the Keeper by Tanya Huff. Genre: Urban Fantasy An undeservedly obscure series that ought not to be a footnote between the Blood and Shadows books. )

Jane of Lantern Hill by L.M. Montgomery. Genre: Fiction Again, you're never too old for a good book. )

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